Thank you for taking the time to respond. I think I have read every one of your recent threads over and over. That is why I reached out to you.
I will try to be a bit more vague next time. From now on I will let my actions show as opposed to saying it. The IC part is too late as I already told her about it. I just wont mention it again.
She complained about something needed to be done around the house and told me that I should have done it if I wanted to show her that I am serious. I asked her if I got it done first thing tomorrow morning what would that change, no answer. So being a servant around the house in not an issue. Btw I havent done things she has asked me to do.
There was some disrespect happening in her conversations at work. So I took her to the side and told her it needs to stop right away. She went on and on justifying it and I listened, when she was done I told her again it needs to stop. She has complied so far since then.
Definitely not sick of you talking about it because I need all the knowledge I can get. I can now see the resentment builtup over the years and I understand where she is coming from. I have decided not to have any R talks or D talks, but there is something else you should know. I think she may have seen my notes on my phone when I was sleeping. There was a list including no R talks No OM talks in plain words not abbrevated also included my gym goal, among other things in a point format. No mention of my source for the knowledge. How bad is that if she has seen it.
She is going away to see her family overseas with S9 for 3 weeks. She plans to discuss D with her family when she is there. Also her birthday is approaching while she is with her parents. Do I send her a message or ignore it. I dont know if she would have given her parents the news by then.
