I am glad you are here, and thank you coming back and for sharing. I think it is helpful to have someone so much further down the road than most of us to advise us. Please continue to share and let us know what worked, what didn't work, and how you wish you may have done things differently. I imagine you have some valuable wisdom and experiences to share. I can't help but wonder if standing and/or waiting for you W has held you back from any happiness or other life experiences?
I do not suggest that anyone needs a partner to be happy, not at all, but I do wonder how you get along with the mind set that you are holding on to her or the idea of her. Do you have a timeline in mind? Will there come a point when you allow yourself to give up hope?
So I am one of the ones who had a S that did return and we have been piecing for over 2 years. Things are going well, but honestly I have had my doubts at times. I appreciate your story because it reminds me that the grass may not be greener.
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
