IF/WHEN there is a heads up about the filing, you don't mention HIS feelings. (Who cares what he wants or does?)
It's about what YOU want/need now and "from this day forward."
You want him out by Friday? Check in with your L about timing and you tell him you want him out by Friday. T3, what is there to say?
Don't even go there. It'll sound like the same old same old "nagging/always on my back/soooo distrustful, blah blah look what T3 did to ME!"
BTW your h will move out soon after you file, anyhow.
And no one who matters will believe his narrative about how you "Forced" him to move out.
Reality - a woman with a newborn and 2 other sons under 6, does not do this lightly.
The real world knows that, and no one else matters.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
