Question.... I have an interview next week which would bring me even closer to home and it wouldn't give me a place to stay away from home the few nights a week like i am now (like she wants). I would like to do this to have a more concrete schedule, more time off to spend with the kids and more time for GAL'ing. However, I don't want this to be perceived by her that this is me pursuing. Plus, like you stated above I need to give her the time and space she has requested. This career move might take some of that space away (unless I find someplace to stay those few nights).
Hello Fof3,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
Focus all of your time, effort and energy into being the best Fof3 and Dad that only a fool would leave. Getting a job closer to home allowing you a more concrete schedule and time with your kids is a good thing, right? (Not to mention a complete 180.)When you get the job make it all about the kids.
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Cristy
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