SJ, I can't remember if you've retained a lawyer yet but you might want to consider it. If your H is racking up CC debt then that COULD come back to haunt you in the D. You may need to be documenting this somehow so you can demonstrate the debt is is post-separation and not part of the martial assets/ debts. The only way to sort that out is with a lawyer. Good luck and hang in there!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57