We discussed possibly bringing my boys in to meet and talk with my IC. S14 has seen her previously for some anxiety and ADHD issues, so he knows her (although I'm not sure he wants to talk). I mentioned this to W, and she said she'd like to bring them. I don't know why, except maybe for appearance sake.
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I discussed this with my IC as well except to tell her that my WW made appointments for my 3 to see a therapist at a time I may not be able to make! Guess I need to discuss this with her.
I also told my IC about the lack of emotion she has shown in this whole mess, she asked me if this is out of character and of course it is. My WW always showed emotion towards everything, she then asked if she was on anti-depressants?? That got into the Bi-Polar talk, she feels she is showing signs of that.
I feel terrible for you S10, I've only had to answer is it my fault question once and all I said was absolutely now is this your fault, this is all on your mom and me(god I hate saying that). MY kids have grown so close over the last couple of days, I guess something good can come from tragedy.
As far as the GAL, I went off the rails for the first two days now I am full steam ahead, I have a new plan and fulling detaching, as tough as it is telling the kids it will become easier to GAL.
One last thing, I have read in multiple post from different people that you need to accept letting it go before you can move on, I am at that point, I think you are close as well. Keep it up!
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