Here are the follow up texts to our previous texting.. when she said that she would send me the information that day.
(the next day) M - Really?? Is it because you don't know, aren't ready, or just like f'n with me?
WW - No, I am definitely not f'n with you. I don't know when I moved to current county. I believe I was 21. So I guess just put then, my mom might know better approx. date so I'll ask her. as for name change, I haven't decided this but I guess if you need an quick answer.. yes.
M - I wish you would of said that before. The date is just to show that you've lived there for 6 months, so I'll just put birthday when you turned 22 if you were there at 21.
M - Also, if you need time to decide name, just say so and I can wait. I just don't like feeling like I'm being ignored.
W - I know and I'm sorry. I wasn't intentionally ignoring you.
W - Ok, for the date I moved to county that's fine.
w - Honestly, I never though about changing my name back, and it's a really hard decision. Do you have a preference on what I do?
M - I really appreciate you asking my input on the name, although there was a time I would of wanted you to change it, I don't feel that way anymore, I'm ok with either decision. With that said, I don't feel comfortable making a recommendation. I think you should talk to someone who's been there, maybe your mom or friend. They may be able to give you some pluses or minuses that someone who hasn't been there wouldn't think of.
M - I will hold off on filing out the form until you decide and let me know.
W - Thank you. I really appreciate that.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized