just to be clear, I support your adoptions - I just don't want him off the hook for it if he "thinks you were separated"...I want you to figure out if you can do it alone and let's hope you won't have to. I don't know how the law looks at his role if he's leaving.
But yeah so consider making your h financially responsible for that (even if he isn't going to be a big part of her life}). Can you handle it alone? If so, then there's nothing to worry about - but I always favor more support - when there's more who need support.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016