I'm almost done reading DR. I think I misunderstood the LRT and drop the rope technique.
Yesterday in a discussion I told her that I am preparing myself for my future without her and have an IC to help me through the process so no matter what I will come out a stronger person. We should start talking about co-parenting and schedules after she returns from her trip to visit her parent overseas. I also suggested that she should move out of MBR since she hasnt been faithful. She still denies the A btw and says he's just a friend that is helping her through this. I told her I didnt believe her. Also disclosed my plans to sell the business and home once we decide to move forward with the D. She still goes on and on about how it has nothing to do with the OM and all my fault I validated each time. Should I have not shown her all my cards.
