Gordie, I believe you are correct. The not knowing is maddening. When a W starts acting completely out of character, BDs and is vague about reasons only sighting that they are surprised that you never saw it coming, odds are they are under the spell.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
