Thank you, Cadet. So much to digest while applying. I don't know that I could have followed the rules had I already lived through it once before. Human nature is so counter intuitive in these matters.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.