Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

[peacetoday]

Glad you seem happy and moving on with your life

We do get there--the full letting go

Sounds like you are creating a new and nice environment with GF and your girls will be better for it

My kids absolutely love my BF and he has been a stable rock for us for many years
the 4 of us have had much fun together and his presence has made a difference for them-

as for you XW--she may have to accept her choices and her life--to me the choices most MCer make seems crazy, but many of them seem to choose the same path---always leads to addiction destruction and alienation

all the best