I get the cementing thing. Today i kept it light and non argumentative. At work I listened and tried my best to get everything done on time. And he was in a much different mood. Happy and whistling. I guess sometimes I feel like if I act happy then he will think that I am ok with the separation and then he would feel no guilt. But yes who wants to be around a sullen moping person work for the day is almost done. Tomorrow is another day to get thru