I am so happy for you. Enjoy the time you spend w/the new guy and no, you don't need luck...You already are a lucky lady. Just be yourself and everything will be just fine.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
Thats great Sotto, he's a lucky man and remember set your standards high !!! You deserve the best. Either way enjoy it and dont forget to spill the gossip straight after !!!!
So the date went ahead and we had a nice time. He is certainly pleasant to chat to and an interesting man. I didn't really feel any attraction today, so I don't think I'll take things any further. But a nice new friend hopefully & I feel I broke the 'dating' ice.
Thanks for the encouragement and moral support xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
So the date went ahead and we had a nice time. He is certainly pleasant to chat to and an interesting man. I didn't really feel any attraction today, so I don't think I'll take things any further. But a nice new friend hopefully & I feel I broke the 'dating' ice.
Thanks for the encouragement and moral support xx
Well done Sotto
My 'first date' experience was different .... after the water arrived I pronounced my never ending love and suggested we should go to Vegas and get married.
Kidding!! ... very much like yours, and honestly I approached it as a challenge, I had to get out there and figure out how to talk to someone on a potential more 'than friend less than lover way' and learn how to be completely awkward and own it feeling like I was an elephant on roller skates.
