True. But add in age and the fact his insurance is VA. It takes months to get an appointment and you just keep your fingers crossed it doesn't get cancelled. All they have done so far is tell him he has anxiety about his performance.

Well, duh. I already told him that months ago. It doesn't take an MD to figure that out. Probably doesn't help that his partner is an expert on SSM. And yes, he knows all my stories and even knew my H for a while before his death. My past probably makes him even more anxious.

Tick tock. I guess I am impatient because I am getting nothing but older. At this rate it's going to take a year before he even gets a physical completed.