Yesterday I fielded several passive-aggressive comments from W. She set up the boys for school registration and then texted me "You're welcome". I emailed her about a line of credit that I was considering closing, and she responded via text saying "Thanks for thinking I'm going to run up the debt."

I'm also part of a group that occasionally does charity work (this is pre-GAL), and W asked me via text where my event was this weekend. I asked why she needed to know, and she said she was just curious. So I never told her - I suspect she may be trying to find a place to have me served, and I DO NOT want this going down during my charity event. Then at dinner with the boys last night, she started asking me again where my event was. I just had to flat out tell her "I'm not telling you." She got all dramatic, glared at me and slowly shook her head. The boys said I should just tell her, and I told them not to worry about it. So apparently she's not above using the kids to her advantage. Pathetic.

It's weird, this week W has been home for dinner every night. She NEVER does this normally. Does she think she can prove that she's a committed parent at this point, when she hasn't been for YEARS? (Whoa, I just realized I slipped into mind-reading there.)


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.