From your sig:

Time from BD1 to "back": 2 mos.
Time from BD2 to "back": 3.5 to 4 mos.
Time from BD3 to present: 3.5 mos.

You are playing it correctly this time in not rushing back in.

Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)