Thank you for your responses. After texting with him last night I know where my path lies. I need to stop arguing and be more reasonable. I'm going to search out how to resolve conflict more. And listen to actually hear him. Not just to respond. He said to me that he can't really take the kids because his house is so small. It is. It's a two bedroom and our daughter takes his room while she is there and he sleeps on the couch. He said if he takes them then he will need to sign a lease on a bigger house and he doesn't want to do that. His house he rents now has no lease. He can get out with two months notice at the moment. So I guess I repent for that. But like I said. He says he's done. But then he tells me that he can't come home because nothing willl change. And it's hard to wrap my head around not believing anything he says lol. And yes I am out GAL. I am just beginning to agility train my puppy. Which I love!!!! I am back working out again which is nice. And I try to fill my weekends with friends and stuff to do.
