That sounds good Odga. Take it slow, no expectations, focus on the friendship, lots of prayers, and let's see what happens.

You know what I used to do when I was DBing my X? Right before he arrived at my house, I would pray. I was very specific in my prayers, but didn't ask for my X to come home. I asked for strength, for clarity, for the right words, for my X to have an open heart and mind, for courage, etc... And it worked every time!

Oh, and I always said a thank you prayer later.

Sounds like some great DBing time. Good luck!

Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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