When you have time, take a look at HaWho's threads. Her h is still living at home and has made a room his "dorm" room. She's done a great job of keeping it together for her and her two sons. Her threads are worth their weight in gold. She struggled at first, but she's gotten the hang of detachment, etc.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
