I didn't file for divorce because i wanted to. I just didn't see any other option. But once I started the process I began to feel more at peace with the end of the marriage because the life I envisioned for myself was so much calmer and more manageable than the one I was living AND the one I had been living while he was with us.
Imagine your life without your H. What will it be like? I'd love to see you (once you're caught up) actually write out a vision for yourself of what your life is like without him, and see how it feels. Do it here. Happy T is such a pleasure.
GREAT JOB on the academic success! You are truly an inspiration.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15