So no contact yesterday. And then today i recieve text asking about my day. She dropped my son off tonight. We had a quick talk tried to keep it light but did ask her if she had any concerns that she would like to table. She says she doesn't know but feels like we are making steps in the right direction. I just wish we could talk about our issues instead not addressing the problems. I still believe her true concerns havn't even been brought up. Communication and closeness have not been present for a long period of time. I would assume a 180 is being active helping the kids and around the house as well as trying to communicate with her.
Why is she around? Is she doing it because of guilt about leaving the kids? I just keep asking these qquestion to myself. Why tell me see doesn't love me and she needs space. Then have a regular schedule were we are in contact. This hot cold back and forth thing is very frustrating. My 16 year b is starting to show signs of anger towards his mom this is something i dont want to mess up he feels like she left him and all i can come up with is she is your mom you need to give her a break she is the only one you will have.
