Odga, I like the way you list out your plan and your goals. I try to do that too, and I found that by doing that it holds me more accountable to myself. I also re-visit them every couple of months to update with progress, adjust, and add any new ones.
Good luck with the no contact period! Regardless of the outcome, I think it will be well worth it, and you will find yourself in a great place
It sounds like you have some great ideas about how to keep busy meanwhile. I've learned that just living my life is the best and easiest way to get through the strange times.
Again, good luck!
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!