WAY TO GO, getting legal advice. And now that you have legal advice and you're filing, please ignore my previous post. That was me saying: IF you're going to go off on him again, just lay all the cards on the table.
No sense in getting into that with him now that you're filing. I agree with the others.
Big step today. I'll write more later, but I'm sending you hugs. I know you're overwhelmed and this isn't easy.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014