IF he is in MLC its a long journey Many men hit MLC at about 40 but it can vary a little
Its not about you or your M Its about Him and his unresolved issues many MLCer follow the same path: and the MLCer may do many of the following:
Give I don't love you speech have an affair distance get in shape stay out late or all night negligent fathers tattoos blame the LBS get new clothes dye hair work out new car/motorcycle become totally withdrawn/uncommunicative with LBS new job -loose job spend-spend and more spending watch the finances trips drugs/prescriptions or street drugs new friends sometimes younger
the LBS has to take care of themselves by watching the craziness and detaching go to counseling parent the children take care of the hous,e and watch finances carefully rest, eat. sleep exercise destress get support post journal and read
we have all been there and I can tell you many LBS do get through this and land on their feet and better than b4
hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
