whatever you say in person, if anything

(B/c I would write it out in a paragraph due to my concerns of escalation)

keep it BRIEF. WAS's cannot hear more than few sentences unless it's lavish praise.

Anything negative or controlling or non complying or adult like requests, that don't jive with their world view, is all

"blah blah blah 'nagging negative distrustful wife forcing me to leave so I can finally be happy" - noise.

So, keep it brief and stay on message. Do NOT be diverted by his responses b/c they do not matter.

You are giving him information, NOT having a conversation, so his response is not needed.


Unless his words relate to visitation, there's nothing else for him to say at this point.

It's NOT about the marriage or how you "never" trusted him and how tired HE is of not being trusted, and where ever else his verbal exit ramps lead. It's about your living arrangements.

Besides he's buying a house so what's going on with him in your home anyhow?

Looks exactly like he is trying to avoid abandonment accusations and doing some image management for himself.

Don't be diverted. Stay on message...keep it short.

((( )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change