Yeah, I've always said the WW DB's better than the LBS except for one thing... They rarely do anything to improve themselves long term.
They generally have the Detachment, Drop-the-Rope and GAL down pat. Except when the LBS DB's, it's really an investment in our future and generally doesn't come easy, and I would venture to say that because of the work put into it, our changes are longer lasting. Whereas the wayward is acting on adrenaline and excitement, which wears down and then they stop DB'ing because it wasn't a conscious thought to do it in the first place.
As for the other responses, I think your dead on with conflict avoidance, but with a sprinkle of IDGAF.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized