Since the BD my W stated she needs time and space. I have worked away from home for the last 4 years due to distance so i would normally be gone for four days and three nights most weeks. My W stated if we could maintain status quo with this schedule we could continue cohabitation. I recently accepted a job transfer closer to home which would allow me the ability to go home more. Obviously, this was not good news for her. She said if i planned on being home more someone will have to move out. I decided not to press the issue and told her i would put her needs in front of my own and continue staying at work on the days she requested. I'm finding this to be really difficult but am doing it.
We still do things as a family and at times spend some alone time together (nothing intimate).
IDK, If you can spend more time home, i would. It would fit in with the GAL but put the focus on the kids. You said you are spending time together even if awkward. They say don't believe anything they say and only 50% of what they do and i think thats applicable here. Don't push, maybe try and ask her out and court her again if she eventually accepts. She is the one that wants out remember.
Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10; HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17 Kids Together D4, D1.52 W Moves Out: 03/16/17 W Files : 03/17/17 D Final: 10/23/17
