[quote=holding]Yesterday S10 gave W a picture he drew. It was a big angry face with "Don't divorce!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" written at the top. She contained herself when she saw it, but I could tell she was REALLY ticked off. She asked if he gave me one too, and he said no.
Ah yes,, the children! The pain this has caused my kids instantaneously is almost unbearable, it's kills me they are in this much pain. That's why the kids need to know who is responsible for the divorce. I reiterated that point again yesterday. My D11 cries every time she sees me, my S13 was fine until he saw WW and started balling his eyes out while she continues to show ZERO compassion or emotion! S17 doesn't even want to be in the house now, he told me in a text that "I hate mom"! I hope she's happy.
It is easier now to detach with the kids knowing, next step is to tell her to leave the house. Good luck Holding!