You're right. It's just that sometimes hearing complaints about work gets overwhelming. Our MC talked about a temp gauge and not giving our power away to others by being that affected and so I just wanted to say hey good morning and talk about something more pleasant.
It was a major issue for us in the past. I felt like a therapist hearing her complain about everything and everyone. But she really does let it affect her mood the rest of the day. And that affects the way we interact. And when we are right in a very fragile state I just wish she would take some ownership of how much that affects how she interacts with me. But somehow when she is frustrated from work it starts to lead to comments about things I do wrong (and more so things from the past).
But as I wrote in earlier posts: a lot of the time lately we have been interacting very pleasantly and been doing a lot of things together.
