odga, please excuse me for chiming in but I've been noticing this going on for a while and your last post confirms it. C is asking you to back off for a while. Probably so she can have time to forgive herself or whatever she needs, hence the 2 months. You seem to be a little forthright and impatient, i.e. when she said 2 months/hot wings, you replied call me when you want wings? Huh?. Also about the Destin thing, again you seem to be coming on too strong.
You've been so patient this long and despite your obvious and burning desire to get back together, I think you need to dig a little deeper and find some more of that DB energy that's kept you going.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
Sometimes they need the time away from us to know what they really want, seeing us only clouds their feeling and makes them confused, lol, did I just say that?!
So, maybe my H needs his space too, and I need mine.
Collector of tools? Well, let me ask you this, have you ever used them? At least now you have the space to use them, make it a new goal! Making things with your own hands, can be so rewarding!
Give C her space she asks for, I thin you will be busy with the new house!
it was my plan before Sunday to let her make the next contact after I got my things on Tuesday. While I was hoping that after Sunday she was rethinking her position, after Tuesday I reverted to my original plan. I do have more hope, tho, in that I feel her direction is now more positive that before. I am hoping that after some time without contact she will come down on my side of the fence. However, while I was in court this morning, she sent me a on the IM.
when I got online after court C sent me an IM asking me how the pre-meeting went with the group gong to Destin, Fla. I told her that I did not get a chance to go as I had to go to the Real Estate office to sign more papers. I then told her that we have a contract and my loan was approved and the closing date is tenitively set for June 11.
She then said that I left one piece of furniture (a pantry) and asked if I was going to leave it for her? Asked me how much it cost.
she then told me that a tech support man returned a call I placed on Tuesday and a little about what he said.
Guess I will respond to her IM but will keep to my plan to not contact her and give her the space she requested.
I did have another flying lession today - did some piloting ( finding my way from one point to another) Seems that when I got the the airport I told my instructor about my new house and she asked me where it was - so we ended up flying over it. It was neat. I am looking forward to my solo but since I was on ADs for a bit the medical is being held up - so I will just use a DBign technique - Patience. it will come. My instructor said that when I get the medical I should be able to finish up within a month after that. Til then I really don't mind flying with my instructor. I am learning alot.
She said that Buster (a male chihuahua - my last year's anniversary gift to her) was doing better. I ask in what way. she said that lately he had started to leave his "mark" everywhere in the house but that lately he was not doing it and she said that she had figured out why he had done it. She said that Buster REALLY did not like someone she was seeing and that buster would "Mark" after he left. I asked her if the reason buster was better now was because she was not seeing him anymore. She said she was not bringing him home anymore but would do dinner some with him. I turned to Buster and said "Good dog"
just got an IM from C - rainbow icon with "have a good day" - I replied in kind and asked her how her day was going and then sent a
It is interesting in that before the bomb when we did the IM we would send the hearts to each other - since the bomb and me starting to DB I changed to the Rainbow icon where I would usually do the heart. I think that she picked up on the switch and understands that to me the rainbow means ILY - and today she initiated the IM and sent the rainbow.
on the IM. 
Flying over your house sounds really neat.
