Wife says that she had enough, files for divorce

[SwHubby]

Discussed practical stuff with W yesterday evening, since she's about to move into her new apartment next week. That went fine.

Then I asked her why she never responded to any of my suggestions that D could start sleeping at my place. My W told me that she was annoyed with me asking, that we had a verbal agreement, besides the written one (from the time we argued so heavily about our D in the beginning of BD/D) that:

1) I am going to get declared 100% healthy by doctor
2) Then one year should pass without any setbacks/symptoms of burnout. If so,
3) D is allowed to spend 1 night with me. And possibly more.

Wtf! Do not have any memory of such a deal. However, a lot of things were discussed during these days that I cannot remember everything we said to each other. I am getting nervous about what I really agreed upon with her. Or what she thinks we agreed upon. However, contacted the court some time ago about the possibility to dismiss our first agreement, and that communication will be sent to her. So a **** storm is coming eventually...

This makes me really sad. I thought that she would start softening since I am showens each time I am with D that i am perfectly fine taking care of her. Guess she cannot see that. I just want to help my W to get happy...