it was my plan before Sunday to let her make the next contact after I got my things on Tuesday. While I was hoping that after Sunday she was rethinking her position, after Tuesday I reverted to my original plan. I do have more hope, tho, in that I feel her direction is now more positive that before. I am hoping that after some time without contact she will come down on my side of the fence. However, while I was in court this morning, she sent me a on the IM.