Oh yeah, I've heard that one before. Now she's co-dependant, but conveniently the only change she makes in her life is getting rid of her H. Even though there are friends and family who are actually a drain on them and really contributes nothing to her life. I have heard this from my own W. But yet when things happen, she still goes to me first and foremost. Which is also a reason why she wants to be good friends after the MR. Don't fall for the nonsense.
If she really believed what she was saying, then she would make up a list of people she needed removed from her life. And you shouldn't even be on it. But like I said you are currently the only person that is on the "I need my independence list." What that is code for in my sitch "Is I want the right to sleep around without you telling me I can't."
