Ya 25 what you're saying was the gist I was going with. Like when he offered pics It doesn't prove anything and I don't care enough to see a picture. He said I'm turning around now to go show you. I said again H I don't care. It means nothing to me. All I care about is getting the boys to bed and having a long day tomorrow.
So what do I do tomorrow? tell him not to come here?
You are giving him too much credit. His thought processes are not that complex. You've told him a bunch of times not to come back. Either demand the house keys and garage opener like I did or change the locks like I think Train did. He's a big boy. He will figure it out.
I think Train is 100% right. You keep saying you are afraid he will pull the money but you keep going to town on him and he doesn't.
I hate the visual of you hiding in your room and locking the door. You should be sitting on the sofa, watching TV with a bowl of ice cream on your lap while he is tapping at the front door begging to be let in (cue wicked laugh sound track).