I don't care if he lies but do it somewhere else....
I thought I was doing the right thing by telling him this wasn't a hotel and that he needed to make his own arrangements outside of the home because staying here isn't working.
Damn I thought I was doing right .... guess I failed at that one.
I know what I wanted to add when he got here wasn't right and that was anger so I didn't say it.
I just remember last time when he lied to me I cut him off in the middle of the lie and said I won't tolerate being lied to and ended the conversation so that's kind of what I was going for with this conversation and made it about you no life are welcome here.
I guess the finance part was me being on the offense he hadn't done anything wrong in the moment ... whereas right now he knows he s lying and he knows he's wrong deep down inside and him being kicked out of here in this moment is a result of his acute/immediate choice and I figured he would be less likely to pull finances. Maybe that makes no sense but that was my thought process. That he knows he deserves to not stay here?
Bear with me ladies. I am on like zero sleep. But hey on a positive note I PASSED my encounter and my professor was an ANGEL!! she was super appreciative that I was willing to do it so late at night 1015-11pm! We did it faster than it was supposed to be which was nice n
