If you want to go off on him, T, let it be on YOUR schedule. Not as a reaction to anything he's doing or not doing. When you're on the defensive like this, you hand him power. But it seems you don't have the guts to do it offensively. And you have said it's because you're too scared he is going to pull $??? But you're not afraid he will pull $$$ when you lose your temper being reactive like this tonight?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014