WAS wanting to move across the world - help

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OK, so therapy was as expected today. She said how she has spent so long trying to please others that this is now HER time and she wants her independence.
She was also nasty enough that the therapist told her that she was being offensive.

Is this also part of the pattern??

Anyway, she is on a plane now with our baby (other 3 kids are with me) - and I feel like I have some breathing space.