Interesting. H had a tow job today. And he couldn't find the vehicle. That normally gets him overwhelmed and getting angry at me. But today he said directions got messed up and it wasn't my fault. That is not normal for him. At all. I see this as a plus.
I did however ask him to talk to our D13 about living with him part time in the fall. She doesn't want to at the moment. Because there is nothing to do at his house she says. And since he has them for the month of August it would be a good time to talk to her about this. He said he can't make them do anything. Which totally goes against his whole you are the parent and they are the child philosophy. And he's not talking about taking the kids not because he doesn't want them. He loves the kids and loves spending time with them. He's not making any decisions in this separation. If he wants it so bad why won't he make decisions? Lol.