He's done it told them after 45 minutes of asking me to still be his friend and crying! H asked me not to cry when he told them which I didn't, I was in the room and he actually didn't tell them he made it sound like he was just going to be away more for work so I had to tell them. DO laughed asked him why and was being silly. S cried. H said to S shall we go out for a bit I said what about DO. I asked them if they wanted to stay and talk or go out with Daddy and they wanted to go out. I text him about half an hour later and said let me know when you're on your way back he replied yeah course you OK. I didn't respond.
They got back with the biggest bags of sweets and S went to his room and DO was watched TV with H. I was in another room ironing. Put DO to bed and she asked for both of us to take her up which we did and then I asked him to leave. He said S was fine and left DO had already said you're going to see us Mondays and Wednesdays so I'll see you Wednesday Daddy.
After he left I went to S and he broke down we talked and he asked for my 2 best friends to come round so I arranged that, got my brother to text him and asked him what he was thinking. He said he was sad about leaving primary school on Friday and was worrying about that and now he had to worry about this. I told him he didn't have to worry about anything he just needed to talk to Mummy or Daddy or my brother or Grandma or our friends. I told him Daddy loves him and so does Mummy.
My friends came round played and talked, not about the sitch just about whatever he wanted to talk about and he was laughing at text messages from my bother. He wanted to sleep with me to start with but then said he wanted to go in his own bed and is sound asleep for now.
H not a word since he left no text to see how they are nothing, despicable.
Day out planned for tomorrow and we will be fine I will make sure of it.
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
