While we were still at the restaurant she also said "I don't feel like I really gave you a chance, but then I feel like I tried to work on it for over a year." I told her that she may have been working on it but she did not let me know she was working on anything. She then told me that it is too easy to get a divorce. I agreed with her and told her that in some stated there is a one year waiting period. She said that if there had been a one year waiting period her then we would not have gotten divorced. I told her that she and I had a lot of emotional problems with both of us having problems with our hormones and all.
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Her saying that doesn't surprise me with the way she has acted all along since the D.
Plus everything I have read about D suggests a good percentage of people afterwards wish they had tried harder to work on their marriage.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
