Hi!...so , i ended up spending Saturday at the zoo and then Sunday just on a long 7 mile walk with my W....I avoided bringing up any "us" at all costs....I never had any expectations by spending time with her...it goes without saying I DO love spending time with her and it's my impression she enjoyed the time with me...but, I am back to reality now..do I need to have a small talk with her like:

-Can you pls get tested for STDs/hiv ASAP for your own health?
-I wanted to ask her how she feels about sex therapy
-I wanted to ask her how she feels about individual counselling..

is this the wrong time/approach?...I feel these things MUST be communicated somehow..

Thanks!


Me 42 Her 47
M 10yrs