I think it's easy to swing to extremes in these circumstances (which is why, despite the hardships it would cause, I *really* wish H would just move out already so you guys aren't in each other's faces everyday). Anyway remember how we encouraged you to stop worrying about what you "should" be doing? If not, here's your reminder. grin

I wouldn't, like, pick up the phone and call H to ask him to look at the dryer. But if he is in the house anyway, you can absolutely ask him to take a look at it! The key is in asking without expectations.

Don't make things harder on yourself than they already are!

CONGRATULATIONS on your final grade!!!!!!!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014