Quote: We then continued with an interesting talk in which she shed several tears and made statements like “if we get back together you would never forgive me” and “I have hurt you so much and I don’t want to hurt you any more” and If we get back together, you mother would never forgive me” I let her know that I have already forgiven her and that forgiveness is something I do for me so that I can move on and not carry hate around for the rest of my life.
This says it all!
Keep doing what you are doing, it is diffently working!
You said the day was a surprise to you; about what was happening. LOL, It didn't surprise me one bit!
I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed, there may be a happy ending just around the bend!
BTW, you are the King of DB! I think you handled the whole thing with flying colors! I'm very proud of you!