Just simply try your best. If your W is worthless and being mean to you, then it won't be too hard for you. My W on the other hand when OM is not the topic of conversation is actually easy to get along with. We function very well and if you didn't know whatbwas happening between us you would assume everythingbwas going great. If anything we have proven that we can get things done together. This is the issue that I am personally having with detaching. I've lost a lot weight this Year from working out and my W keeps telling me that I need to eat more. She likes the weight loss, but she is concerned that I am not eating enough. Sobsge is constantly putting food in my face. Small, confusing glimpses of her caring.