So... STBXW got her stuff, and tried to take some of mine (washer/dryer). When I refused to allow her to take them, she called the police. After initially trying to talk me into allowing STBXW to take the washer/dryer, the deputies agreed that, based on the martial dissolution agreement (which I had a notarized copy of) they were mine and she couldn't.
My daughter got to witness all of this. My mind is blown that she was there at all. At one point, she asked me, in tears, "Daddy, why is mommy stealing our things?" and also told me, in tears, "Daddy, I'm never going to see you again." And the ever wonderful, "Daddy, are you going to go to jail?"
STBXW followed up with some really, really long texts accusing me of screwing her in the divorce, suggesting that I did her wrong by adopting our daughter, and even that I somehow screwed her over when we got married. Did not bother to respond.
25 hours or so and this should be over. I'mworried that it might not be (don't know what she's going to do but she SAYS she is coming to court).