Hi Cil,
First - nice to "hear" from you - great job on the grades. You're a rock star gf!!!! So proud of you!!

What absolutely jumped out at me is that his dad had the same relationship outside of his marriage with this woman. I will refer to her as Bubbles 1.0. Is it just me or does no one else think it's relevant that your exh has a Bubbles Next Gen version in his MLC?

xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver