For me DB'ing at the moment is the LRT, I have read the books and also downloaded Michelle's video course which I watch every few days to remind myself and also re-reading your 37 rules over and over.
That is what it means for me at the moment. I honestly don't have a plan for beyond that as things are in such a desperate position.
She is currently packing for the trip - she's going away for 2 1/2 weeks and yet is unloading half her closet, sheets, blankets, etc (remember she's going to her mom's). I made a comment which was torn down quickly.
She also told me that she is getting somewhere in her mind, but will wait for the therapy session tomorrow. My reading between the lines based on her behavior and on the way she is packing is that she's going to tell me in the therapy tomorrow that she is certain she wants out of this marriage!!!!!
Assuming that's what she says - it's going to cut like a knife - do I still with the not believing anything they say???? I'm scared for that tomorrow. Could really use some thoughts for that.
Also, should add that the only conversations we are having are her telling me what furniture she wants in her house from the place here.
I have been pretty ok on the LRT and even went out last night and got all dressed up, not telling her where I was going, etc.
All she said to me is that I can go out again today.
Not sure it's working at all!
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????
