Great job, and I know you're happy to not have this all looming over you anymore. You handled it like a boss. Hope you had fun!
BTW, in my opinion what's best for YOU is what's best for the boys. You are the backbone of their childhood and the source of their emotional security and strength. Their interests and your interests can not be opposed as long as you are not acting out of vengeance or anger.
Keep moving forward!!!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
Hope you had fun! 