Also, I have been thinking a lot about how someone can change. And I just wonder if it's that we saw them with rose colored glasses when they were with us.
They were never truly put to the test for committed adults.
I almost feel like they discarded us and no longer treated us with basic human kindness and courtesy because we were no longer of value to them or no longer simple and easy.
Most of our spouses leave after crises or hardships in life. Death, sickness, children. They can't handle it when things get hard. They are fair weathered people. But it's hard to know what they are truly like until the weather changes.
It might not be them that changed. Only the weather.
